A Warm Weekend

Posted Jul 24 2010, 3:21 am in , , ,

The Northwest has been cursed with some awful weather this spring and summer. Finally, we’re getting a little taste of summer this weekend. As I write this, it’s 8 pm and about 76 degrees outside. Lovely. It doesn’t get better than this.

Our house is surrounded by trees so we’re in the shade right now, but it’s still warm and calm. I’m thinking it’s the perfect time to sit in the hot tub with a glass of wine and enjoy the evening just watching nature do its thing.

Sunday we’re going boating around Puget Sound on my ex-husband’s boat. Did I say ex-husband? Yes, I did. After the inital two years of hating each other (which I think is expected when a relationship breaks apart), I forgave him and he forgave me, and we moved on. My hubbie introduced him to his new wife, as she was a friend of ours. We’ve all become great friends over the past few years. While most people consider it weird, they also admit that’s how it should be after a divorce. Instead, many divorced couples can’t seem to get beyond the hatred, their zeal for vengance against perceived wrongs, and their quest to make friends and family pick sides to further destroy the hated ex.

In fact, as I’m wandering all over the place, my next book Forward Passes deals with the results of a contentious divorce and how it negatively and tragically affects the children, even long after they’ve grown into adults. It’s a sad situation, and mental health therapists will be the first to tell you that there’s no cure for a parent who turns their hatred of their ex into an obsessive passion. You see it happen over and over. I’m sure every one of you has a story to tell from your own experiences or a friend/relative’s experiences.

I’m currently shopping Fourth and Goal, book one in my Seattle Lumberjacks Football series, around to larger publishers. Forward Passes is book 2 in the series. I’m about a third of the way done.

I’m looking forward to seeing both books in print.

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One response to “A Warm Weekend”

  1. Laurie Ryan says:

    I am LOVING this weather, Jami. We had a family BBQ last night and it was great to sit outside and visit.
    Knowing how much I enjoy your writing, I'm anxious to read your Lumberjacks Football series and will be hoping you find a publisher soon. 🙂